At your annual checkup, that’s great—but it still might not be enough if you request them.

Minds up, women: Whether you are solitary and

, in a severe relationship with bae, or hitched with children, STDs ought to be on the intimate wellness radar. Why? STD rates in the U.S. are greater than ever before, and chlamydia and gonorrhea are well to their solution to becoming antibiotic-resistant superbugs. (And, yes, that is since scary since it seems.)